Bless what you covet.

Yes, bless what you covet. When you see a good looking person, bless him or her. When you see a good looking person with another person, bless both of them. When you see an expensive thing which someone possesses, bless that thing and the person. Bless what you covet and you will live a happier life.


Part 2 of what I learnt today.

You can achieve 80% success just by being present. Have you wondered how many people missed this event that you are attending because they don’t think they deserve it or they are too good for it? You never know when you’ll get the chance to shine and the last thing you want to do is to miss the chance.

And it’s all in the mind. The “little voice” from the previous post Belief = X factor is always at work. The loser side that reflects your voice will always sell you with the most tempting excuses and justifications for not doing something, anything or everything. With enough self awareness of your thinking, you will hear this voice of yours complaining, blaming, looking down on others, get jealous, you know what I’m talking about. Do the exercise of physically plucking out this voice and say thanks for sharing, now shaddup. You might think that this is too silly. “Oh, who am I? a 3 yr-old?” you might think. My answer to you is: “If you choose to think this way, you’ll be like this, Forever. If you think you don’t deserve fun, you are right. If you think it’s too childish and it doesn’t work, you are right. So when you think why you are not happy, rich or whatever, it is because you believe that things could not be done this way. The way of having fun won’t get you rich. Fun ≠ Money. And that will be your narrow mind. Be inquisitive and learn all kinds of things. The more fun, the more productive the learning will be. Don’t think of the 1000 reasons that you may fail but focus on the 1 reason that says you will truly succeed. So do the exercise and for goodness sake, it is FREE. You don’t owe me a cent for You taking control of your life, but I’ll accept donations haha. Learning to control that little voice is the most essential thing to start on anything towards success. Let the winner side of you live in your mind  and give the winner the control to give the loser the boot when it starts whining or saying unproductive words. The winner inside you will 100% supportive in your positivity. Say to yourself that you can achieve it, the winner will respond yes, you can achieve it. Say this will be mine, and the winner will respond yes, this will be your’s. Passing control over to the winner side of you rather than letting the loser side of you take control is not an easy feat. You could either get someone to keep reminding you or you do the exercise to keep it ingrained in your mind. It’s simple cause & effect; what you think is what you do, what you do is what you think. The physical & mental are two separate sides of the coin but still belongs to the same body. Aren’t you glad that with cause & effect, you just need to influence at least one side to get the other side influenced too? Getting 100% from doing 50%. That’s why when you do exercises such as this to change yourself, remember to Believe in what you do, say, think. No one’s going to believe you if you don’t even believe in you yourself. A leader ain’t gonna lead someone till he leads himself. So nurture the winner in you and let your ambitions be realized.


Belief is the “X” Factor

Belief is the choice/motivation/tool/weapon/power/meaning/goal/drive/x-factor. I could only say that without a strong belief, you would easily get drawn into this downward spiral of blaming everything and your problems will only be bigger as you lose the energy to do things. Believing is all it takes to flip the switch and open new routes to all that untapped potential within you.


Now, close your eyes and think for 15 seconds after reading this sentence:

                       What do you believe about yourself?



“I believe that I….”  

Now, may I tell you that what you just proclaimed to believe will actually come true!

After seeing that sentence, the skeptical voice in you will probably surface. It’s good to have doubts but aren’t you also doubting yourself now just by thinking “Really?”  to yourself.

We all have our own skeptics inside us. It’s great that you are skeptical about things but it does not help if you are a skeptic of yourself. The skeptical part of you will make you impose a limit to your potential. Where did this skeptical part of us come from? How did it appear? Upon understanding and learning how to control that skeptical part of you, I hope that you’ll earn what you’re worth.

Deep rooted in our memories are these self limiting beliefs which formed the skeptics in us. These self limiting beliefs are created from the past. Parents might have told you repeatedly to not do something and soon their skepticism and self-limiting habits took shape in our minds. Fortunately, these are just habits which you’ve picked up without you knowing since young and they are not an innate feature of us, meaning that you can actually take control over these self limiting habits with a counter habit.

Initially, you’ll find it hard to believe in what you want to achieve at your current circumstances. The self limiting belief is at work here. The skeptic of you will dish out all kinds of excuses & reasons to stop you. DON’T FALL INTO ITS TRAP. The skeptic of you is the loser of you. A losers’ objective is to make sure you lose like them so that they can pour blames and complains into your mind and then bottle up your emotions for an explosion later on. The loser will say I don’t deserve it, I’m not good enough, this is too risky, I’m too busy, I have no time, this is too hard, I give up, I can’t take it and blame their colleagues, siblings, boss, weather, anything but themselves for choosing the path of self limiting beliefs.

Try this exercise. Use one hand to pluck out this voice in you and put it in your other hand’s palm. Look at the voice and say “Hi, little voice. Thanks for sharing.. Now SHUT UP!” and squash it.

The number one weapon of choice for your skeptic loser is to use your fear against you. We fear because of uncertainty. The fact that we can’t expect things with 100% certainty is undeniable. Since we can’t control uncertainty, we have to control ourselves. You make the choice to not fear uncertainty, but to have faith and take on any uncertainties that will inevitably hit you, the faith that you can overcome them and achieve the greatness inside you.

I blessed that you’ll uncover your potential by shedding those self-limiting beliefs and live a faith-driven life that overcomes perils in life.