Yes, bless what you covet. When you see a good looking person, bless him or her. When you see a good looking person with another person, bless both of them. When you see an expensive thing which someone possesses, bless that thing and the person. Bless what you covet and you will live a happier life.
Part 2 of what I learnt today.
You can achieve 80% success just by being present. Have you wondered how many people missed this event that you are attending because they don’t think they deserve it or they are too good for it? You never know when you’ll get the chance to shine and the last thing you want to do is to miss the chance.
And it’s all in the mind. The “little voice” from the previous post Belief = X factor is always at work. The loser side that reflects your voice will always sell you with the most tempting excuses and justifications for not doing something, anything or everything. With enough self awareness of your thinking, you will hear this voice of yours complaining, blaming, looking down on others, get jealous, you know what I’m talking about. Do the exercise of physically plucking out this voice and say thanks for sharing, now shaddup. You might think that this is too silly. “Oh, who am I? a 3 yr-old?” you might think. My answer to you is: “If you choose to think this way, you’ll be like this, Forever. If you think you don’t deserve fun, you are right. If you think it’s too childish and it doesn’t work, you are right. So when you think why you are not happy, rich or whatever, it is because you believe that things could not be done this way. The way of having fun won’t get you rich. Fun ≠ Money. And that will be your narrow mind. Be inquisitive and learn all kinds of things. The more fun, the more productive the learning will be. Don’t think of the 1000 reasons that you may fail but focus on the 1 reason that says you will truly succeed. So do the exercise and for goodness sake, it is FREE. You don’t owe me a cent for You taking control of your life, but I’ll accept donations haha. Learning to control that little voice is the most essential thing to start on anything towards success. Let the winner side of you live in your mind and give the winner the control to give the loser the boot when it starts whining or saying unproductive words. The winner inside you will 100% supportive in your positivity. Say to yourself that you can achieve it, the winner will respond yes, you can achieve it. Say this will be mine, and the winner will respond yes, this will be your’s. Passing control over to the winner side of you rather than letting the loser side of you take control is not an easy feat. You could either get someone to keep reminding you or you do the exercise to keep it ingrained in your mind. It’s simple cause & effect; what you think is what you do, what you do is what you think. The physical & mental are two separate sides of the coin but still belongs to the same body. Aren’t you glad that with cause & effect, you just need to influence at least one side to get the other side influenced too? Getting 100% from doing 50%. That’s why when you do exercises such as this to change yourself, remember to Believe in what you do, say, think. No one’s going to believe you if you don’t even believe in you yourself. A leader ain’t gonna lead someone till he leads himself. So nurture the winner in you and let your ambitions be realized.